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Self Optimism 7: Be Confident & Stand Tall

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                                              Photo by  Karolina Grabowska  from  Pexels     Welcome back loves❤❤❤          Finally, we have come to the 7th point of this Self Optimism series and I'm more than happy to complete this, not just that, but also knowing that you all have received something good from this series. I sincerely hope you have gained hope, strength, and a new set of positive eye to look at yourself with from all the points we've addressed in all post.        This point is a little bit personal to me because it's easy to feel inferior to others when you feel like you have achieved nothing or so little as compared to your peers, and this was my situation sometime back.  Never feel inferior to others because of where you are in life.       I hope that last sentence sunk in, I'm sure you have heard a lot of positive words of encouragement to help build your self-esteem, but hey! You are not your experiences, all those only make you stronger. Yes they

Self Optimism 6: Keep Your Faith In God Open

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      Welcome back loves!           It's December guys! I'm beyond excited, so elated, and I can't contain this joy. It's been a very rough 2020 and the thought of it ending in the next 25 days is so exciting. I'm so grateful that amidst all that happened this year, I'm alive, which is in fact a miracle because the devil tried. Trust me, he tried but he met my GOD in front and of course, he's defeated and he will always be.         My condolence to everyone who lost a loved one this year, close or not, I hope you continue to find the strength to carry on. It's been a very hard year and you've done so well till now, trust me, don't stop giving your best, if it's trying to lift the curtains every morning for a little sun to come in, keep doing that. Do not allow the darkness eat you up, continue trying your best to live, the best is yet to come, and even though it seems like the worst has happened this year, just know that your best days are ye

KDRAMA "DINNER MATE" REVEIW(MY COINS) Spoiler Alert❗❗❗

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                                                                                                        Welcome back loves❤❤❤❤❤❤        Loves, I bring you spoilers, in case you have not watched this drama, I would strongly recommend that you might want to do so first before you continue reading,  but if you don't mind hearing all the details from me first, then let's go!         Lest I forget,  if you have seen this drama already, well, HI! and if you are also Korean, I would like to formally introduce myself to you in a very awkward but exciting way.  ANNYEONGHASEYO, JE ILEUM EUN REBIAH IBINIDA. Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I felt that deep down.        I love Korean dramas so much that I could watch any scene, well not every scene, without English subtitles. I also enjoy the Busan accent. It's the best, trust me, it has a unique feel to it, unlike a typical Seoul accent, even though it's easy to learn, to speak hangeul from a Seoul accent just by watching dramas.      That's

SELF OPTIMISM 5: FOCUS ON THE PRESENT AND PLAN THE FUTURE

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    Welcome back loves! ❤❤❤❤❤            Happy new month people, I hope you all are doing excellent and well. I was supposed to post the 5th point on self optimism last month but probably didn't get enough energy, time, and space to do it. But, here I am now!        First, I'm sure you all know what I am about to discuss and probably have an understanding at the very least or more on how to do that and how much it helps to be at peace with your process. Now, relating to self optimism, which is staying positive no matter what, about yourself either plainly or after several disappointments, there's more to delve into and definitely more to discuss.        In my post on Self optimism 2: It's  okay to break down and CRY , I touched on letting go of the past and focusing more on who you want to be presently and hopefully in the nearest future which is very close. The present is who you are currently, not permanently, but an evolving era into the future, which can also be sta

Self Optimism 4 : BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF

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Welcome back loves!   ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤                                                        It has been a moment 😎         I've been really enjoying and enjoying this series, I mentioned in the last post how this series has been a reminder for me and also a review process. Well, I'm glad to tell you that I've been going through a stage of re-discovery while trying to build up this point, as this directly applies to me and how I deal with myself after going through some things.  Anyway, that's me, how's it been with you, let me know in the comments, now let's get to the main point for this post.         I've once written a post on PATIENCE  before and if you haven't read it, you might want to check it out. I was literally very far from being patient earlier in Life and as I matured and went through issues that required me to stay inevitably patient no matter how much I tried to speed things up, I finally learned that Patience is key most of the time.        Won

HOW I DE-STRESS AFTER A VERY STRESSFUL DAY/WEEK

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  Welcome back loves!       First, this routine is based on my life before the pandemic, as there hasn't really been any stress during these times, except mentally, and that I'm handling quite well. So, if you don't know, I'm a nurse by profession and my Job is highly demanding and stressful. I'm not working right now as you might have noticed in my posts if you have been following my blog lately.       I stopped working early this year as I had to travel and get some things done for myself, so I had resigned earlier before the pandemic got out of hand and serious. My work is one that comes with a lot of stress physically and mentally. and most times there is almost no time to de-stress as the hospital I was working with before was really short-staffed and Nurses had to work 12hrs daily as a normal shift, I'm not talking about night shifts just day shifts.       The stress that we get even with a 6hour or 8hour shift is enough to handle not to talk of doubling t

Self Optimism 3 : BUILD DOORS NOT CONCRETE WALLS

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Welcome back loves!          This series on Self Optimism has been a kind reminder and a review on my way of living life, people say to learn to take your own advice and not just dish it out to others. The first step, accepting that failure happens but shouldn't become what you expect of yourself every time. The second step, let out your heart and clear your head to be able to see clearly and positively again. Shall we begin the third point? Ok, let's go!         First, let's check the definition of both walls and doors, then we can get into this point properly to ensure better understanding.  WALLS:  A thing regarded as a protective or restrictive barrier or A continuous vertical brick or stone structure that encloses or divides an area of land.  DOORS: A hinged, sliding, or revolving barrier at the entrance to a building, room, or vehicle or in the framework of a cupboard.               It's normal to withdraw or go into yourself when you go through several disappoint